More About Me

I am a 45 year old male from Baltimore, Ohio

Normally I work construction, however at this time I am down for medical problems, I have swelling in my feet and ankles, is very painful and makes it hard to walk.

I am easy to get along with most of the time, but lets face it we all have our bad days, and I am no different, by the way for those of you that do not know what a BHM is, it stands for Big Handsome Man, witch is just a nice way of saying that I am fat, but all of that aside I am also human, so please be kind and I will do the same ;-)

I very much enjoy working with computer graphics, have been told by others that I do fairly good work, my main interests are animated .gifs and Shockwave flash, I find both very interesting and they give my mind the challenge it needs.

I have been married 3 times, I am not going to say the divorces where more one person then the other, but I will give you a tip if you think you might be interested in me, take me as I am, don't try to change me, it has been tried and does not work, oh and one other thing be polite until I have had my first cup of coffee in the morning, I am grouchy as an old bear until I get that first cup down.

I enjoy life and I figure it is to short to spend arguing, if a good argument is something that you enjoy, PLEASE look elsewhere, I know that some people say that all relationships have arguments, I do not believe that it has to be that way, and I promise I will not live that way.

I get great joy from the company of a woman, here I have to be clear, I prefer a BBW or a Big Beautiful Woman if you will, but if the lady is a good person size and race are bot a factor, I love with my heart not my eyes.

I am the type of person that likes to be close, and yes ladies I do believe in public display of affection, if that is a problem, sorry.

I enjoy cuddling, candle light dinners, evening walks, camping, and various other activities, I am very much a romantic at heart.

Well I don't know what else to put in here at this time, but if you like what you have seen and read on my pages please by all means do contact me, at [email protected] I hope to hear from you